Oxel
Contently A Distraction
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Post by Oxel on Mar 15, 2006 19:11:25 GMT -6
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Post by Laura on Mar 15, 2006 20:42:32 GMT -6
Not me.
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Post by Absinthe on Mar 15, 2006 21:14:18 GMT -6
Nope....I am blissfully single....there's enough drama in my life without adding guys to that equation.
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Post by fightingirishman on Mar 15, 2006 23:23:51 GMT -6
Nope, no one right now.
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chaosns
Wishes To Be A Distraction
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Post by chaosns on Mar 17, 2006 18:11:33 GMT -6
I had one, I'm planning on asking her out again, I'm just too much of a people person to be alone, Today would have been our 2 month anni though.
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Oxel
Contently A Distraction
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Post by Oxel on Mar 17, 2006 19:08:41 GMT -6
I am a loner
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Post by fightingirishman on Mar 19, 2006 18:00:22 GMT -6
It may seem like a tough thing right now, but as displayed by pretty much all of us, not having a significant other isn't the end of the world. Sure, it's a little bit disheartening at times, but you've gotta go and just live instead of letting it bother you. If you find someone, you find someone; if you don't, you don't, but you live without the regret of not having lived life. So cheer up man, go out there and live!
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chaosns
Wishes To Be A Distraction
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Post by chaosns on Mar 19, 2006 19:44:34 GMT -6
Oh trust me, I know, but they're this allure, I guess you can call it and Im hooked line and sinkered. Puns are fun.
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bapiau
A Devoted Distraction
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Post by bapiau on Mar 20, 2006 4:18:12 GMT -6
had one, split just before xmas. He was nagging me 'cos I've "changed" (I'm in Uni for crying out loud we all have to grow up at some point) so I dumped him -_- such a whiner. lol
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bapiau
A Devoted Distraction
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Post by bapiau on Mar 25, 2006 18:15:38 GMT -6
met a guy today, who I've known online for ages. First time we actually meet and end up making out in his livingroom. Was really random. he's not long come out of a relationship so isn't looking for anything too serious and neither am I so it's all good ^_^ That and it's one hell of an ego boost lol especially when he text me afterwards asking if I had a good time and could he see me soon because he wants to kiss me more. It's great cos he lives in the town where my Uni is, but is going to Uni in a city about two hours away. so there is no pressure to see eachother... that and, wow, he's a great kisser.
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Post by Sharon on Mar 25, 2006 23:59:27 GMT -6
funny i am in a somewhat similar situation as Blitzava.. although i wouldn't go as far as saying "he worships the ground i walk on" lol he's my best friend and has always been open with the fact that he likes me (extremely, to the point when he says he loves me) but he's cool with us just being friends.
i'm not in a relationship because i'm afraid of commitment. well... i'm not sure about that. at this moment i've got the mentality that there's only one way relationships run, ...they start and then they end. then we go on looking for another story. that was a horrible explanation but oh well. (i'm too lazy to delete and replace it with a second attempt) basically, with every relationship opportunity for me, i see it ending before it even starts (which is horrible i know!) but i can't help it.
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Post by fightingirishman on Mar 26, 2006 10:20:29 GMT -6
Yeah, I can definitely see that. I'm pretty sure the girl I'm interested in isn't interested in me, and she's a pretty good friend, so I don't want to ruin that, either right off the bat, or eventually, because as you said, they've gotta end sometime.
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jest
A Dedicated Distraction
Playin' Tha Ol' Gitter
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Post by jest on Mar 28, 2006 13:06:17 GMT -6
I'm taking a vacation from girls...deffinatly. I've never really been in a "bf/gf" situation, but alot of complicated halfway relationships, weird no one knows what the heck is going on ones. XD
Though, I don't understand why people say as fightingirishman just did that relationships ruin friendships. If anything they strengthen them. You just both have to commit enough to hold on to them even if they fall apart a little.
However, I'm not in a place to be giving advice. XD
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Post by Absinthe on Mar 28, 2006 15:12:07 GMT -6
As far as relationships go, I have this thing with a guy. Its hard to explain really....there is just so much tension between us. One moment I find myself absolutely disgusted with him and the next, I find myself just wishing that he would kiss me and get it over with. God, it is so screwed up. He is such an ass-hole, but at the same time I catch glimpses of this guy I could find myself falling for. He's arrogant and pig-headed and absolutely full of himself, but he's smart and can be funny and his favorite movie is Casablanca and lets just say, he's easy on the eyes. But I hate him. But I like him. Its all messed up. Isnt that just the story of my life. . .
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Post by fightingirishman on Mar 28, 2006 16:56:26 GMT -6
Wow, Absinthe, that's a very complicated situation, oy. Yeah, jest, I don't really know what I'm talking about, I guess. I've never been in a relationship myself, just hanging out a couple times, so I haven't really seen an impact on the friendship firsthand. It's just that sometimes, when the relationship is over, things just don't seem to be the same. That's just what I observed, and could be way off.
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Post by Laura on Mar 28, 2006 17:35:59 GMT -6
^Dan, you're right. A relationship can severely damage a friendship. Trust me.
Not always, but it can. Hopefully whatever you choose to do everything goes well.
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jest
A Dedicated Distraction
Playin' Tha Ol' Gitter
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Post by jest on Mar 29, 2006 13:23:49 GMT -6
I just see it as your more likely to regret never giving it a try rather than regret finding out you two weren't meant for eachother. Maybe that's more my personality though. With a girl I had a crush on, we are best friends. I made the desiscion to go for her and after about a year of really confusing stuff (never dating just discussion) I think our relationship as friends is a billion times better for it. Getting all those excess feelings out of the way and really understanding eachother.
Absinthe, that's the most confusing description of someone I've ever seen. However what I personaly got out of it the bad completely outweighed the good. =P
This "Dan" thing is gonna get confusing. Since that's my real name too. XD
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Post by Laura on Mar 29, 2006 15:18:52 GMT -6
Ahh two names the same does get confusing. But yeah, friendships turning into relationships can strengthen your friendship, no doubt ... it can go both ways. I would hate to have the "what could have been" weighing on my head too. That's already happened and it sucks.
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Post by fightingirishman on Mar 29, 2006 16:43:24 GMT -6
Yeah, relationships are strange. On the side note, I could always go by Dan the Man, King and Tyrant of all that Roams the Earth. But that's a little long. Any suggestions  ? |
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Post by Laura on Mar 29, 2006 17:32:30 GMT -6
Do I ever have any suggestions ... that are good? When I read your message I started singing System of a Down's legend of zelda song. I really must be losing it.
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bapiau
A Devoted Distraction
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Post by bapiau on Mar 31, 2006 11:35:05 GMT -6
Wow, Absinthe, that's a very complicated situation, oy. Yeah, jest, I don't really know what I'm talking about, I guess. I've never been in a relationship myself, just hanging out a couple times, so I haven't really seen an impact on the friendship firsthand. It's just that sometimes, when the relationship is over, things just don't seem to be the same. That's just what I observed, and could be way off. The relationship doesn't ruin the friendship- the breaking up does. My ex used to be my best friend, and now we hardly ever talk, we didn't part on bad terms either we just, out grew eachother. So I don't really mind, you feel, when you are on really good terms, that if you lost them you would feel terribly empty, but you don't and thinking that a relationship would ruin a friendship- in my opinion- is just silly. Coincidentally I'm now deeply in lust with one of my ex's friends... funny how things work out really- especially since he got really paranoid that we were seeing eachother behind his back, even though we barely knew eachother then. |
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